Ki te tahaetia te Kirihimete e te Grinch, ka aukatia tātou e tēnei mate urutā ki te whakanui katoa i te toenga o ngā hararei hotoke. E kitea ana ko tēnei tētahi atu wā tatari. E ai ki ngā taunakitanga hou a te kāwanatanga, kāore e whakaaetia te haereere hararei, ā, ko ngā huihuinga matihiko te huarahi tino tupato ki te hono atu ki ngā hoa me te whānau.
Ki te hiahia koe ki te manaaki i tāu ake whakaaturanga roma, kia maumahara ki tētahi mea hei aro atu. Nā te mea kāore ngā tuhinga a Emily Posts e kapi ana i ngā huihuinga mariko, i whakapā atu mātou ki ētahi kaihautū tokowhā, ā, i hoatu ki a rātou ngā tikanga pai mō ngā rōpū inu matihiko, ngā wā tiēre me ngā whakamātautau waina. Kauae, raro ki runga, ā, haere tonu ki te pānui.
Hei kaihoahoa huihuinga, e mōhiotia ana ia mō tana huarahi "whakaruarua i te kaha". Mō te wā roa, kua whakaratohia e Gardner ngā rauemi mō ngā kaihautū pāti e whai ana ki te waihanga i tētahi pō e kore e warewaretia. Kei roto i tana rapunga whakaaro ngā tauira i runga i ngā tauira, ngā putiputi mutunga kore me te takaro. I tēnei ngahuru, i whakatuwherahia e ia tōna ake whare me te toa pāti ipurangi, ka kitea e koe āna mea tino pai katoa - ngā raina Pōtikī, ngā karāhe Murano me ngā taputapu pōtae pepa hei tāpiri i te ngahau. Anei ngā mahi pai a Gardner.
Ki taku whakaaro he mea pai te whakaaro o te hunga e huihui ana i te ao katoa ki ngā huarahi hei pupuri i te tikanga hararei. Heoi, e mataku ana ahau i te tono kia whai wāhi atu ki ngā huihuinga mariko. He uauatanga hangarau, ā, ka noho ki mua i te mata rorohiko ki te kai me te mataku. Ka tūtohu ahau kia poto, kia reka hoki ēnei huihuinga mariko, engari he rite tonu te maumahara. He aha e kore ai e uru atu ki ngā hoa me te whānau mō te tōhi i mua i te tina me ngā karanga pāti moe?
Whakamaherehia he tahua motuhake, whakatenatenahia te tunu kai ā-rōpū, kātahi ka whakarite kia rua ngā waea Zoom i te wā kua whakaritea i mua atu me muri i te tina. Whakaritea kia 30 meneti i mua atu i te tina, ā, i muri mai i te ahiahi kia kore ai e whakararuraru i tāu kai.
He kāwai katoa o ngā pāti mariko kei a Paperless Post. Ka taea e koe te tāpiri i tētahi hononga "zoom" ki roto i te tuhinga. He pai ki ahau ngā kōwhiringa i roto i te whakaahua o Happy Menocal (i hanga anō hoki e ia he kāri tahua ataahua mō taku toa).
Kua roa mātou e titiro ana ki te wāhi kotahi, ā, he huarahi pai te whakapaipai tēpu ki te waihanga i tētahi taiao whakanui. Tonoa he putiputi! Whakaitihia ngā rama! whakakakahuria ō kākahu! Whakairihia te rama! Ahakoa te iti o te rōpū, kaua e tukua tetahi mea kia whakakino i te whakatakotoranga o tō tēpu. Ka taea e koe te whakaatu i ō whakapaipai i te wā o te waea Zoom, engari kaua e whakamahia te "papamuri whakaahua" ki te kore e tino whakarihariha, e tino whakahihiri hoki.
He ākonga ahau nā Priya Parker (nāna i tuhi te pukapuka "The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Hiranga"). Me mōhio tonu te kaihautū ki te kaupapa, ahakoa te whakatakotoranga. He huarahi tēnei hei whai tikanga ai te mahi.
I tēnei tau, ko te mea nui ko te whakamahere i mua me te whakapau kaha, nā te mea ka whakamahia ngā waeatanga Zoom mō ngā hui pakihi. Mauria he pōtae hihiko, he rotarota aroha hopu, tukua rānei ngā tamariki kia waiata i ngā waiata rorirori. Tāpirihia he panikeke. Tukuna atu he kopare me he pōtae pāti wairangi, ēnei pihikete pāti rānei, he whakapaipai kākahu kei runga, me tētahi kēmu rūma noho ngahau pērā i te "Whakatauira kei te rewa koe i te tangata hukarere", he tino ngahau. Ae ra, ka taea e ō whanaunga te mahi i tēnei me te harikoa.
Ko te haere ki te tina a Aeron Lauder he ako i te toi o ngā tikanga. I whakapuaki te kaihoahoa i riro mai i a ia te tirohanga a tōna kuia mō te hoahoa me te momo kāhua pāpori i ōna mātauranga i roto i te pukapuka hou "Rizzoli". I mea ia me ngāwari, me ngahau hoki te whakangahau, ahakoa he kawhe mā te tokorua e takoto ana i te moenga, he manaaki rānei i ngā mema o te whānau tata mō te tina. Ko ngā mahi pai a Lauder e whai ake nei.
Ko te huarahi pai ki te whakahaere i tētahi huihuinga mariko ko te pupuri i te tūmataitinga me te noho motuhake. Ki taku whakaaro, ko te hiranga o te aro ki ngā taipitopito te mea i akohia e tātou i tēnei wā. He pai ki ahau te inu tī ahiahi me ngā hoa me te whānau. He huarahi pai tēnei hei whakamutu i te rā.
Kāore e taea e au te teka, ehara tonu ahau i te tangata pai hei whakamahi i te Zoom, me āwhina pea aku tama i ahau ki te whakarite i tēnei huihuinga. Engari ināianei he wāhi pai tēnei hei kōrero, hei huihui, hei waihanga maharatanga hou.
Mō te tī o te ahiahi, ka tūtohu atu ahau kia whakaritea e koe ngā mea katoa e hiahiatia ana e koe - tō huinga tī, te huka me te miraka. Kua whakamahia e au taku raupapa tī Ginori 1735 Granduca i ēnei rā tata nei. He ipu iti tonu taku e kī ana i ngā putiputi, me tētahi peihana e kī ana i te tiakarete edelweiss whakaranu. Kua whakamahia e au tā mātou ipu Lattea hou puta noa i te tukanga taratahi nā te mea he mea hanga ki te karāhe, ā, he ātaahua te āhua i roto i ngā taiao katoa. Kātahi, ka tūtohu atu ahau kia kohuatia te wai i mua i te tīmatanga o te mahi kia taea ai e koe te tino pārekareka ki te wā me ō manuhiri. Ka taea e koe te kōrero ki a rātou i mua, kia kore ai he tangata i roto i te kīhini i te wā e waea mai ana.
He tino tawhito taku āhua, ā, e pai ana ahau ki ngā pōwhiri i roto i ngā īmēra, engari mō ngā huihuinga mariko, ko ngā pōwhiri matihiko te mea tino pai. He pai ki ahau te hanga pōwhiri matihiko ritenga hei whakaoho i te hihiri o te iwi mō te huihuinga. He pai ki ahau te mahi tahi me ngā kaitā peita wai pērā i a Happy Menocal, Kinshippress me Clementina sketchbooks kia pai ai te whakaaro o ngā manuhiri he mahi ā-ringa, he mea motuhake hoki.
Kua taunga tonu ahau ki te mahi i ngā mea mariko me te ako i ngā tikanga pai, engari ki taku whakaaro ko te whai i tētahi papamuri mahana, ātaahua hoki te mea tino whai mana. Ina tae mai he manuhiri ki te kāinga, e hiahia ana ahau kia noho whakamarie, kia koa hoki rātou. Nō reira, ko taku whāinga he waihanga i tētahi taiao mariko e rite ana ki tēnei ariā. Ina whakahaere i tētahi hui tī, ka tūtohu ahau kia whakatata atu koe mai i te rūma noho, i te kīhini rānei. Whakatakotoria te pona ki runga i te tēpu taha, ka taea hoki te whakatakoto i ngā huinga tī ki runga.
Ahakoa te aha, me tūpato tonu tātou. He nui ā tātou mahi ki te kāinga, nō reira, ngā mihi nui ki a koutou mō te wā e taea ai e koutou te haere mai.
I ngā wā katoa e whakangahau ana ahau, he mea nui ngā kōrero whakamere, whakamere hoki kia pai ai te noho o te ahiahi, nō reira he mea nui kia kōrero te katoa. Koinei tētahi o ngā take e kaha ai taku whakaaro ki te whakahaere i ēnei huihuinga iti, whakawhanaunga hoki. Ki taku whakaaro he mea tino nui te whakatū hononga tika ki ō manuhiri, me te mea kia rerekē ai ō rātou whakaaro. He pai tonu ki ahau te kawe mai i ngā kōrero whaiaro me ngā maharatanga ki roto i aku mahi kia noho rite ai ngā manuhiri ki te kāinga. E hiahia ana hoki koe kia taea e ō manuhiri te taunekeneke ki ētahi atu.
E mea tonu ana ahau, hei kaihautū, he mea nui te whakangā me te ngahau, nā te mea ka whai ngā manuhiri i tāu arataki. Ki taku whakaaro kei te mau tonu tēnei.
E 45 meneti te roa e rahuitia ana e au mō tēnei, engari ahakoa pēhea, ka mutu noa iho. E ai ki aku wheako, ka ako ngā manuhiri i ngā tohu ka memeha haere.
He pai tonu ki ahau te waiho i tētahi koha iti ki te wāhi kai a te katoa. Koinei taku i ako ai i taku kuia, i a Estee Lauder. Hei pupuri i tēnei tikanga, he whakaaro pai pea te tuku i tētahi koha iti ki ngā manuhiri katoa, ahakoa he rama tahu i te wā o te huihuinga, he taputapu inu mō rātou, he tauera monogram rānei. Nō nā tata nei anō hoki a AERIN i mahi tahi ai me Ngā Tikanga Pāpori, e whakarato ana i ngā mea e tika ana hei whakatakoto i ngā tēpu ataahua katoa ki tō tatau. He pai ki ahau te whakaaro kia whakaaetia e ia manuhiri ngā pereti, ngā tauera, ngā karāhe, me ētahi atu mea kia pai ai te wheako.
Ko te mea nui, hei kaihautū, me noho ngāwari, me noho ngahau hoki. He maha ngā wā ka whai ngā kaihautū kia tino tika, he mea uaua ki te kukume i te aro o te tangata. Ko ētahi o ngā mahi pai rawa atu kua tae atu ahau he mea ōkawa, he mea ngāwari hoki. I kī tonu a Estee Lauder: "Mēnā ka roa te wā, ka ataahua ngā mea katoa." He pai tonu tēnei kōrero mō te ao mariko o ēnei rā.
Hei kaiwhakaū o Virtual With Us, i whakarite a Alex Schrecengost i ngā kaupapa waina-arotahi mō ngā hoa mahi pakihi me ngā hoa kia pai ai te pārekareka tahi. Ko ana kiritaki kei roto i ngā kamupene Fortune 500 ki ngā whakahaere kore-moni nui e whakahaere ana i ngā pāti ahiahi. Ka whiwhi ana manuhiri katoa i te waina pounamu me te waina ōrite i mua i te huihuinga, kātahi ka takiuru mō tētahi pō kōrerorero pai, ā, ka whai wāhi ki te ako mō te waina e inumia ana e rātou. Anei ngā mahi pai a Schrecengost.
Ka whakamahia e mātou a Zoom. He tino māmā ki te whakamahi, ā, he māmā noa iho te ako mō te hunga kāore i te mōhio ki tēnei. Ko tāu noa he pona (he waea pūkoro rānei) me tētahi pūtake mārama pai kia kite ai koe i ngā kanohi ataahua o te katoa.
Ka taea e koe te tuku mai i tētahi rārangi hokohoko hei kimi i ngā waina e ngāwari ana te kimi, ki tētahi atu rānei, whakamahia mai mātou! Ka hangaia e mātou he rārangi o ngā waina, pia, waipiro me ngā inu katoa (kawhe/tī) i roto i a mātou. Ka mahi tahi ahau me ngā kaituku, ngā kaikawemai me ngā hoa hokohoko puta noa i te motu ki te kimi i ngā hua ahurei, ā, e pai ana ahau ki te tuku atu i ēnei ki a koe.
Ka akiaki mātou i a koe ki te waea atu ki ngā sommelier. E hiahia ana mātou kia pai te noho o ō mātou manuhiri ki te waina, kia ako hoki i roto i te taiao whakahihi, maroke, whakahāwea rānei. Mena kei te whakahaere koe i tētahi pāti waina i te kāinga, ā, kāore e taea e koe te tiki ratonga a tētahi sommelier, ka taea e koe te mahi hei sommelier me te pānui i te hītori o te kokotere e inuhia ana e koe, te whai wāhi atu rānei ki te whakamāramatanga a te sommelier matua mō te whakamātautau waina.
Kua whakamātauhia e ngā meka ko te kotahi hāora te wā pai rawa atu, ahakoa ki te mea he wā motuhake tā te katoa, ka roa ake tā rātou noho, e tino tautoko ana mātou i tēnei.
Ko te mea pai rawa atu mō te waina ko te ngāwari o te whakakotahi i te tangata. He tino ngāwari te hono i te waina ki te kōrero, nō reira ka kōrero mātou mō te kai me te ahurea rongonui kia māeneene ake ai, kia whakamere ake ai hoki te katoa. Hei tāpiri, e pai ana ki te iwi ngā kōrero pai me ngā kōrero mō te waina e inumia ana e rātou, nō reira i whakapuakihia e rātou ētahi whakaaro mō te whare hanga waina, mō te whānau rānei nō rātou te whare hanga waina.
Pērā i te haere ki tētahi pāti, me ine i te wairua o te katoa, me ngana ki te whakaoho i te kāmera ki te katoa. Ka huri tēnei i te āhua o te hui katoa, ā, ka āwhina i te katoa ki te taunekeneke. Whakamaherehia he hui whakangahau hei whakakī i te katoa ki te āhua harikoa, pēnei i: he aha ngā mahi whakangahau tino porangi a te tangata i te wā o te COVID, te kaupapa rānei e tino whakahīhī ana rātou, ahakoa he pukumahi te mahi me te ako. Me kata hoki! Ki te ruarua koe, me whakamere. Ki te taea e te katoa te kata tahi, ka pai te wā mō te katoa.
He rerekē ki ngā tēpu wharekai, he āhua tō tātou ki te mōhio āhea ka mutu. Ko te mea nui ko te wheako i tō rūma mariko me te tirotiro mēnā kei te kōrero tonu, kei te taunekeneke rānei te tangata, mēnā rānei kei te āhua ngenge rātou.
Ka taea e koe te kī atu kia kawea mai e ō manuhiri he tiakarete me he tiihi hei kai mā rātou, ā, me kai tahi hoki i waenganui. He pai ake te reka o tētahi karāhe waina tino pai.
Hei kaiwhakaū o Club Club Global, ka manaaki a Solano i ngā huihuinga ā-wiki i runga i te papaaho rere ora Twitch. I whakaatuhia e tana whakaaturanga ngā pūkenga maha, tae atu ki te whakatangi DJ, te mahi toi, te pānui rotarota, me te toi ataata. I whānau mai a Club House Global i roto i tētahi mate urutā hei tautoko i tētahi huarahi kāore e taea e ngā DJ me ngā kaitoi te taunekeneke ki te hunga mātakitaki i runga i te huarahi tuku iho. He karapu manaaki a Club House Global i te katoa. Ko ngā mahi pai a Solano koia ēnei:
tino! Ko te mea ngahau o tēnei katoa, ka taea te tuku karere kore utu, te whakapai ake rānei i tāu e pai ai, me te whānuitanga o te awhe!
Ka taea e koe te whakamahi i ngā tūāpapa maha mō te rere ora. He rawe a Twitch nā tōna kaha ki te tuku taunekeneke wā-tūturu, te whakangao i tō hōtaka, me te whakaatu ki a koe te hapori nui kua noho kē i runga i te pāhotanga ora. Hei tāpiri, ko te noho noa ake te pai! Ka akiaki te ao Twitch i ngā whanonga piripono, kāore i whakaharatauhia. Mā tēnei ka āwhina i a tātou ki te kukume i te hunga mātakitaki, ā, ka ātaahua hoki te pāti ki a rātou.
Mō te nuinga o ngā tono roma ora, me hiahia koe ki te WiFi pai me tētahi taputapu e hono ana ki te kāmera. Ki te whakaaro te nuinga o te tangata ko te mahi e whai ake nei he māmā noa iho te pēhi i te pātene "ora". Heoi, i runga i te rahi o te hōtaka, tera pea ka uaua ake. Mena he DJ koe, he kaihautū rānei, me hiahia koe ki tētahi atanga oro, pērā i a GoMixer, iRig rānei. Ā, he pai ake te tāuta me te ako i te OBS (Open Broadcast Software). Mena kei te hiahia koe ki te whiwhi hangarau tino pai, pērā i a mātou i Club House Global, me hiahia koe ki ngā kaitahuri hangarau pērā i taku kaiwhakaū a Patrick Struys. Mena he kōrerorero ora tāu (ahakoa i runga i te Twitch, IG Live, Facebook, Youtube Live rānei), tera pea me hiahia koe ki tētahi kaiwhakahaere hei whakarite kia noho ora tonu te kōrerorero me te tika. Ko taku hoa tuatoru me te kaihanga matua a Anjali Ramasunder i CHG he tohunga i tēnei mara. He maha ngā mahi a tātou katoa, nā te mea kei te uru mohoao te wāhi roma ora, me whai ringa katoa koe ki te papa.
Ka taea e koe te whakamahi i ngā tikanga IRL ōrite i a koe e whakamahere ana ki te whakatairanga i tō ake rerenga kōrero. Hoahoahia he pepa pānui, tuku kōrero ki ngā pāpāho pāpori, kātahi ka tukuna atu ngā kōrero mā roto i ngā pānui, ngā miro tuhinga, me ētahi atu. I te whakatau i te wā e hiahia ana koe kia tīmata te rere o te ataata, whakaarohia te rohe wā o te hunga whakarongo me te wā e puta ai ētahi atu rere ora. Kaua hoki e wareware ki te tāpiri i tētahi hononga tika ki tō rere!
Ka rerekē haere ngā whakatauranga o te whakapāho ora, ā, kāore e taea te matapae. He mea tēnei me taunga koe ki te mahi. Kāore e rite ki tētahi huihuinga IRL. Ka puta ohorere mai te tangata, kātahi ka hoki mai ki tō roma. Ko ētahi tukanga e rua hāora te roa, ko ētahi e 24 hāora te roa. Kei runga i tō whānui o te whatunga me ō whāinga roma. Hei tauira, kei te hiahia koe ki te kohi moni? Kei te noho tahi rānei me ō hoa? Tekau āu DJ/kaitākaro e whakarite ana ki te mahi i tētahi i ia hāora, ko kōrua rānei? I ētahi wā, ko te huarahi pai ki te whakatau ko tēhea te mea pai mōu ko te whakamātautau!
Kia tae mai he hunga whakarongo, ahakoa kei roto i tō rūma hui Zoom, kei runga rānei i tētahi papa tūmatanui, me mihi nui ki te katoa. Me whakamōhio atu ki te hunga whakarongo he aha tā rātou e whakarerekē ana, me te hoatu hoki he mahere o te kaupapa. Kia maumahara, ka tae mai te tangata i ngā wā rerekē, ā, he pai ake te whakaae.
Ina kei runga i te hopuoro tetahi tangata, ko te hunga whakarongo ora te mea tino nui te urupare. Ina koa ka kōrero tika koe ki te kōrerorero, ka whakautu pātai, ka tuku kōrero mō te puoro e pureihia ana, me ētahi atu. Whakaarohia he podcast ora. Mā te kaihautū pai koe e mea kia rite ki a kōrua anake i roto i te rūma. Ka whakangūngia ngā kaiwhakarongo, nō reira ko te nuinga o ngā taunekeneke ka noho i roto i te kōrerorero. Kia tuwhera ki ngā kōrerorero, ā, kaua e aro ki ngā kaiwhakahē.
Ko te huarahi pai rawa atu hei whakarite kia ngahau tō hunga whakarongo ko te whakarite kia ngahau koe. He mea hopu te kaha, ā, ko koe te rangatira o te haruru. Kāore e taea e koe te kite i tō hunga whakarongo, nō reira ka taea e koe te pātai atu mēnā he mea whakamere te kōrerorero. Kia hono atu te hunga whakarongo ki a koe, ka huri rātou hei kaiwhaiwhai. Nō reira, kia mau tonu te hononga ki a koe anō!
I mua i te tukunga oro, me whakarite he wātaka mō te wā whakapāho ora. Ina koa mēnā kei te hiahia koe ki te whakatairanga i te hōtaka i mua. Hei tāpiri, ki te whakaaro koe ki te tuku tonu i ngā pāpāho hei hanga i tētahi hunga whakarongo ipurangi, me tuku tonu ngā pāpāho i te wā kotahi me te haora kotahi i te wiki.
tino pono! Me mihi tonu koe ki te hunga mātakitaki mō tā rātou haerenga mai, inā koa mēnā e hiahia ana koe kia hoki mai rātou mō te whakaaturanga ora e whai ake nei. Anō, whakamahia te tikanga IRL kotahi mō tēnei - tukuna ngā karere whakawhetai mā te pāpāho pāpori, ngā pānui, ngā tuhinga rānei. Karangatia ngā tāngata motuhake e pono ana ki tō rerenga kōrero, ā, whakatipuria tō hapori matihiko.
Ngā purongo hou mō te ahua, ngā pūrongo ataahua, ngā momo kāhua rongonui, ngā whakahōutanga mō te wiki ahua, ngā arotake ahurea me ngā ataata i runga i te Vogue.com.
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